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Blues and the Abstract Truth

I saw Harvey Pekar, just a few months ago. He was speaking at Royce Hall, along with graphic novelist, Alison Bechdel. Alison preceded Harvey, her narrative, about her dysfunctional childhood, underscored by frames of her work, projected on a screen be… Continue reading

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How to Build an A-Team from Day One

Almost every manager begins his or her tenure with the goal of building a top-notch leadership team. Yet as time passes and managers move on to new assignments, they often look back and regret that they didn’t develop their team faster and more aggressively. What’s behind this seeming contradiction — and what can managers do to establish an A-team as quickly as possible?

Let’s start by looking at a few of the dynamics facing a new manager, some of which are described by Michael Watkins in his book The First 90 Days: Critical Success Strategies for New Leaders at All Levels. One factor is that most new managers inherit an existing team and, in fairness, want to give incumbents the benefit of the doubt that they are right for the job. At the same time, most new managers realize that they need to learn about their new business or function, and that much of that learning will come from the existing team. So right from the start, the manager is in an awkward position — evaluating the team members while also dependent on them for internal knowledge and expertise. To make it even more complicated, team members, realizing that they are being assessed, may skew their behavior to reflect what they think the new manager is looking for, so that first impressions may be inaccurate. Given these dynamics, many managers are hesitant to move too quickly, wanting to gather more data before making any dramatic changes.

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Schools Exist to Produce People Who are Happy, Empathic, and Effective

The best schools are cohesive and vibrant, filled with people who are seeking a just and exciting life, and who support each other in this quest. Every member of such a community deserves the chance to make a sincere, mindful effort, and in turn, each deserves the benefit of the doubt from everyone else. To these righteous ends, a school must provide opportunities for each person within it to pursue happiness, to understand others, and to develop power.

Independent schools have a unique opportunity to create days that encourage all members of the community to find the activities that engage them most deeply — intellectual, athletic, artistic. This is the time when children set their compasses, sometimes for good. “Life is a daring adventure,” declared Helen Keller, “or nothing.” We must provide chances for our youngest citizens to sample a deep variety of adventures. In a beautiful setting, a school can define its walls as the horizon and its ceiling as the sky. This engenders a culture that gives everyone room to roam and encourages them to explore. Finding the most meaningful ways to engage one’s energy is a crucial step toward balance.

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“Mexicans Are Filthy Stinking Animals”- Teabaggers: That’s Really Not Racism

Mainstream media has time and again given the Tea Party and teabaggers a free pass and the benefit of the doubt when it comes to their use of racism to recruit and engage followers.

If they use bigoted, discriminatory language, it’s really purely as a matter of argument. If they spew spiteful rhetoric at their rallies, it’s really only one portion of the group – not everyone. If Tom Tancredo advocates for a literacy test to be eligible to vote, it’s really just a way of saying that we must all come together under one nation. If they call us – Mexicans – filthy stinking animals, well they were only referring to the illegal ones anyhow.

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Just Listen: 10 Tips For Raising Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is not the same as self-confidence. Self-confidence means believing in your ability to do something. Self-esteem means believing in your worthiness. Here are 10 tips for raising your self-esteem.

1. Raise the self-esteem of others. Be supportive, give them the benefit of the doubt; never ridicule or belittle anyone.

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